10 months!

Growing up. The milestones:

Our major breakthrough since last month has been sleeping through the night! Hurrah! Not long after her 9month entry I was able to put her down at 7:30-8pm and she’d sleep right through until at least 4:30am, if not later, and then go back to sleep until 6:30-7am. Woo Hoo! This week she’s had a cold so she has been waking a couple times in the night cranky because she can’t breathe through her nose 😦 Last night however, she went down a little after 8pm and slept right through until just past 7:30am! I woke up and realized she hadn’t woken during the night and actually got a little worried just before she woke up for breakfast.

I think she’s teething big time this week. She is kind of drool-y, chews on everything and her lower gum line is looking kind of white and bumpy. I’m looking forward to seeing some teeth in her smile but at the same time it will be sad because it’s a sign of her growing up, sigh.

She’s mostly wearing 9month clothes now and her stock of bigger clothing is whittling down so I have started to look at the next age range at thrift stores and online. I am starting to compile a birthday wish list on Amazon for the family. It’s basically the baby registry updated for current things, but I couldn’t find a way to make another public wish list for her.

Still no real talking yet, but she’s babbling in a very chatty manner 🙂 Lots of mamamama and other noises to communicate sentences, but no real word sounds.

We are now bathing her in the big tub. She still sits in her little tub but can now splash away without soaking the livingroom 🙂 The little tub is getting to be a tight fit though so we will have to move up to a proper baby bath tub very soon.

Playing and learning:

Our new game is “I’m coming to get you!” She’ll be walking somewhere and I’ll get down to her level and tell her I’m coming to get her and she’ll start walking away fast, stop and look back at me to make sure I’m following and giggle 🙂 The other evening I switched it up and when she started walking toward me I turned away and cried “ahh, she’s coming to get me!” and started to hurry away from her, she was giggling so hard, it was fantastic ❤

She’s really into her books (well, anyone’s books really) and will pull them off the shelf and sit with them all around her picking them out one by one and studying them intently. Books that she routinely goes back to are: “Sleepyhead” by Nicola Smee,her Peter Rabbit Finger Puppet Book, ”Where’s Spot?” and “Good night, Spot” by Eric Hill, “You…” by Emma Dodd, “Dear Zoo” by Rod Campbell and “Llama Llama Zippity Zoom” & “Llama Llama Hoppity Hop” by Anna Dewdney. These are books that I am learning by heart 😛 Oh she loves her touch and feel books and one of her baby sign books too! She looks through all of them, but these are the ones she seriously studies and searches for multiple times a day.
Most of her toys are cuddly toys or rattles rather than anything like puzzles or blocks. She loves her phone that her UK cousins handed down and last week I found a little toy at a thrift store (for $2!) that she is enjoying. It has buttons and a mirror and lights and plays music (about 12 different songs!). I’m working on increasing her ‘stimulating’ or ‘educational’ toys (maybe then she won’t pull all my books off the shelf :P).

She loves music. Listening to and dancing to and making. She will dance to music on the TV or radio and I pulled out my big case of CDs and am working through them slowly, which is a nice trip down memory lane for me 🙂 She loves to bang on things to hear the different sounds they make (the washing machine, the table, the door etc) and enjoys clapping together 2 bottle caps to make a ‘clip clop’ noise. She is going to *love* her music class next month!

The other night I was trying to get her ready for bed so I turned off the TV and my laptop and she just toddled around quietly for a bit then she came over to me holding one of her dragons. I asked if she wanted to take Dee Dee to bed with her, picked her up and moved her into her crib to play quietly. It was very sweet and I think I’d like to try suggesting she pick out a toy to take to bed again. The last few nights she’s been studying her books right before bed so I’ve put her in her crib with 1 or 2 books and then removed them when she’s asleep.

It’s funny seeing how she interacts with her cousin. Even though she’s 3years old she acts kind of scared of her (“She touched me!” “She’s going to eat my things!”) but Maeve is just curious and interested in her big cousin. Her cousin is always taking something away from Maeve and swapping it for a baby toy, but we’ll work on the whole sharing issue so hopefully this will be a short lived trend.

We’ve been to the park a few more times and she loves the swing and climbing the stairs to the slide (we have yet to go down the slide except for the one time at Easter). I’m getting a little more comfortable chatting with the  other mums and child minders at the park and I’ve created a group on Facebook to chat with other mum friends about the little daily moments so I don’t feel quite so stranded and lonely. I think it definitely helps that spring is in full swing and the nicer weather is allowing us to get out more often.

She loves animals! She gets very happy and giggly around dogs of all kinds, seemed very interested in Molly and Thumb at my friends house  the other week and she watches squirrels and birds when we’re out for walks. When we’re down on the south side she’ll toddle after the dogs and laughs when their tail brushes her face. Thankfully they are well trained by years of ‘abuse’ from the cousin and are very gentle with her 🙂

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Writing all of this down, and seeing how much I’ve written “she loves…” etc, it makes me so happy to realize how many things she gets enjoyment from 🙂 I look forward to her developing these loves and adding to them over the years. I am excited for Chicago Summer Dance and music festivals and trips to the library/ book store and the zoo etc etc etc ❤

My First Mother’s Day (As A Mum).

So this is my first mother’s day as a mother. I’m not normally one to get sentimental or super mushy over Hallmark holidays but first anniversaries are kind of special and worth celebrating. Since Maeve arrived most ‘firsts’ have been about her, but this one is about me so I’m trying to savour it and relish the day. I know Lewis works hard and quite often more than the standard 40hrs a week, but I have learnt that my new job is 24/7. I don’t get to lay in or sleep late on the weekends anymore (well, Lewis is getting more comfortable with the morning routine lately).

On Friday we went to the ‘burbs and spent the afternoon with my mother-in-law, sister-in-law and her daughter before the Mother-Daughter Banquet at church. This was my 3rd mother-daughter banquet. To be honest it’s often a little overly sappy for my taste, but I am enjoying the tradition of spending an evening with the in-laws and celebrating the mother-daughter relationship. I think it’s an important bonding ‘ritual’ and I hope Maeve grows up looking forward to these kind of events with us. I guess I’m happy that I had a little girl, because I might get away with taking a boy to this kind of event when he’s still a baby, but it is really a mother- DAUGHTER event so…
At one point one of the ladies at our table asked me if I was *that* mother who is always prepared. I said no there’s always something I’ve forgotten, but I do make her food and stuff. And my mom-in-law said “Yes she’s *that* mother- makes all the baby food and teething biscuits and everything”. I don’t know what kind of mum I am, but I’m Maeve’s mum and that’s about all I can say. I do these things because it’s cheaper than buying jars and jars of food and I’m home all day so it’s something to do- which it is. I guess I figure if I’m going to be a stay-at-home mum for a while I need to do the best I can at budgeting for a smaller income and it keeps me busy.
As we were leaving church Sarah got a text from Lewis saying “Working on Mothers Day surprise” to which we both took to mean “boo sucks, I have to work on Mothers day” 😦 This didn’t come as much of a surprise to me as I know how busy he’s been at work, but I was rather sad. Like I say, first anniversaries are special. I figured oh well, maybe Maeve and I will go for a special brunch just the two of us…” When I got home I asked him about working on Sunday and he was all confused “No?” I said well, Sarah said she got a text from you about working on mothers day. Then it dawned on me that maybe I’d heard wrong and she’d meant that her husband was working on Sunday which made me feel awful that I’d been making all these comments about Lewis. But then Lewis realized he’d told Sarah that he was “working on A mother’s day surprise” (but he hadn’t typed the letter A) 😛 Sarah had taken the ‘surprise’ as sarcastic 🙂 So I have a not-quite-fully-surprising surprise coming my way 😉

Saturday evening Maeve and I caught the train down to the south side again and we all rode out to Downers Grove for dinner at The Melting Pot with Mom & Dad. Lewis was at a bachelor party and I had hoped to go to the corresponding bachelorette party, but we would have needed a sitter and as I got to go to the Bridal Shower I figured I could forego the bachelorette. It was a really lovely dinner and both the kids did really well considering we were there for 3 hours! I think I was the only one who’d been to a Melting Pot before and I’ve only been once before back in August 2008(!). I got a lovely card from the in-laws, and some potted flowers too. And when the check came my brothers-in-law took care of the bill between them! Completely caught me off guard ❤ I told Lewis to offer them some cash because I feel awkward them paying so much money. It’s one thing to treat your mom (or your wife), but I don’t know, I would feel better if they let Lewis chip in for some of it.

Today we woke up to a very unhappy Maeve and Lewis gave her a bottle (she usually gets boob first thing so she wasn’t thrilled but she needs to get used to it on occasion so that Nana & Papa can feed her!), then I got a lovely card from Maeve (with a little help from Lewis) and we went out for breakfast at our favourite brunch spot. I knew we’d have to go early because we didn’t have a reservation and it’s Mother’s Day for heaven’s sake, *everyone* is out for brunch! I got a free glass of sparkling something with lingonberries 🙂 Once we got home Maeve napped and we had a little grown up time ❤ And then Lewis took Maeve out to Oak Park for some Daddy-Daughter (& Dugan) time so that I could relax and enjoy a day off.

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I have mixed feelings about it. On the one hand I miss my family and would enjoy some time all together, but on the other hand not having to worry about when she’s going to need the next bottle/snack/diaper/nap etc is rather nice. I’m twiddling my thumbs trying to think what I will do today. I’m definitely trying to avoid doing all the regular chore type activities. I might get some painting done! I might take a nice long shower and a nap 🙂 I might go for a run! Lewis just left so I have the next 8+hrs to do with as I please ❤